Showing posts with label discipleship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label discipleship. Show all posts

Tuesday, October 30, 2012

Pokemon Christianity

One of my kid's favorite video games is Pokemon. The game lets a kid take front and center in his world, and through life circumstances, becomes a Pokemon trainer. His goal? To be the best Pokemon trainer in the world. How does He do it? First he has to catch them, then if he wants to be the best, he trains the Pokemon so he can be the best trainer ever.

I never knew until recently that this a distinctly Christian viewpoint. We first go after those without Christ, then we share the Gospel so that we can bring them into the Kingdom. Once, they belong to Jesus, it is our responsibility to train them so they can be the best, strongest believers they can be.

Interestingly enough, do you know what the tagline is for the game? "Gotta' get 'em all!" It is not enough to reach our family and our friends, we've got to go after them all. We know that's what the Lord Jesus wants, He tells us, It is not my will that any should perish, but that all should to repentance. That is Jesus tellng us that we are His agents sent out to find, bring in, and train every available person. He is telling us, "You gotta' get 'em all."

We have an incredible and unique opportunity this Sunday morning to bring in the people God has brought into our lives. This Sunday is Friend Day. We are asking you to bring a friend with you. If you are an adult, bring one person. If you are a child, bring a child with you. If you are a student in middle or high school, or college, bring a fellow student with you. Kids bring your moms and dads. Parents bring your kids. Gotta' get 'em all!

For that to happen, you might need to pick them up. I can guarantee you that you will need to call them Saturday night and maybe even Sunday morning to remind them to be your guest in church. Here's a bonus, we'll have dinner at the church immediately following the worship service. it will be delicious. Tell them you would love to have them stay and eat.

You can also remind them that they get an extra hour to sleep that day; daylight savings time ends. Fall back one hour, get that extra hour, and come on to church.

Finally, I will be telling the story of my near death experience in the worship service. it is an amazing story of coming back from the brink of death. This Sunday is a day you cannot miss. This Sunday is a great day to bring your friend, your neighbor, your acquaintance, your co-worker, your fellow student, or anyone you meet with you. It will be one of the most exciting days this year!

Why are we doing all this? Because Jesus Himself gave us this explicit command: "Whoever you find, drag them in. I want my house full." (Luke 14:24, MSG). Doesn't that sound a lot like, "Gotta' get 'em all"?

See you this Sunday morning at 10:30.

Pastor Trey Rhodes

Come Be a Part at Oceanside Church this week...

  • FINAL SCAREMARE Wednesday night, October 31 after dusk.
  • FRIEND DAY this Sunday at 10:30 a.m.
  • FALL BACK. Daylight Savings Time ends this Sunday. Turn your clocks back one hour! You'll get an extra hour sleep.
 

Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Believer Defined

Craig Groschel has said, we are able to be bold with that which we believe deeply. As I look at the what has become the anemic church, I am burdened by what theologians refer to as "easy believism." This concept was first introduced by a man who meant what he said, Dietrich Bonhoeffer. He demonstrated that belief with his obedience even in the face of assured persecution. While safely on the shores of the United States, after escaping the Nazi regime, he was clearly told by God to go back to Nazi Germany to stand up for the Jews. He obeyed. He was executed. He obedience still impacts lives. The New York Times bestselling author: Pastor, Martyr, Prophet, Spy, Eric Metaxas's video below tells Bonhoeffer's story better than I can.


It is nothing for us to dismiss obedience as an emotional response to a perceived feeling. It might even be thought of a guilt response to a persuasive speech. But I have to ask, what if the desire to do right is not any of those things, but something that is only able to manifest itself this way in what is our finite, puny human minds. I believe the desire to do right is only given to us as a gift from our holy and righteous God. Think about it, He could have simply let us wander about hoping that we could somehow know what was right to do on our own. But our God has not left us as orphans (See John 14:18).

  • He speaks to us through His Holy Spirit
for it is God who works in you both to will and to do for His good pleasure (Philippians 2:13 NKJV)

  • He has given us a book that makes it clear what His will is for our lives.

If you love Me, you will keep My commands. (John 14:15 HCSB)

  • He even gave us a conscience that drives us toward His standards and away from that which goes against His ways

They show that the work of the law is written on their hearts. Their consciences confirm this. Their competing thoughts will either accuse or excuse them. Romans 2:15 HCSB)

Obeying should be an easy proposition for us, but instead, it seems to go against our nature. Why? We don't want to be told what to do. Somehow, we have excused rebellion as a personality trait or a political stand. But it is so much more than that when we are dealing with God. God shows us how He wants us live and the only response we should have is, "Yes, Lord."

We cannot choose obedience when we want, nor when we get emotional, nor when everything is going smoothly. We choose obedience because our Master, Jesus, has spoken to us, and we obey. That is the life of a true believer. Believers live boldly when they believe deeply.

Peter and John understood that. We have recorded for us how they responded to God when He gave them instructions. We see them demonstrate openly what they believed deeply:

But an angel of the Lord opened the doors of the jail during the night, brought them out, and said, "Go and stand in the temple complex, and tell the people all about this life." In obedience to this, they entered the temple complex at daybreak and began to teach. (Acts 5:19-21 HCSB)

Why don't we obey? Could it be because we don't truly believe? Maybe we think that can have a mental acknowledgment of God and Jesus and His church without there being any change or repentance. Too often we think that belief is something we think rather than something we are.

If that is where you are, then my call to you is to come clean with God; recognize and submit to His leadership in your life, and when He speaks to you, act. You see, when Jesus bids a man, He bids him come and die (Dietrich Bonhoeffer, The Cost of Discipleship). What does that mean? When you know what you believe, to the point of knowing what you would die for, you can truly understand what it is you live for. That should be how we define a believer. Do you believe?

Pastor Trey Rhodes

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

Becoming a Parent that Disciples



I thought it would be good to take a look at the steps we can take to get started on the road to better parenting. God wants so much for our children to grow up and be all they can be. So much of that begins at an early age. I've always said that we're fooling ourselves if we can't break our child's will when they are 2 and then think we will be able to deal with them when they are 12. As difficult as it is, we must break their will (not their spirit) when they are young. My children can attest to what it takes...great love, great discipline, and TIME. I love my children greatly but never backed away from the hard part of parenting, discipline.

I also like how John Rosemond uses a much more biblical word for who we are to be to them: disciplers. Our responsibility is to disciple our children. What could happen to the church if we changed from being child raisers to become child disciplers. Now, that's powerful. When we choose to live as disciplers,  it's as much work on me as it is for them.

Here's some great ways to start the process:

1. Teach Christian values. As parents we need to identify, live, and communicate our values. If we value truth and honesty, we must be honest and adhere to biblical standards. We need to believe and teach our teens that the only truth in the world that matters is in the Scriptures. You are deceived, because you don’t know the Scriptures or the power of God (Matt. 22:29).

2. Express love and acceptance of our children. Even when their behavior disappoints us, we must continue to let them know that we love them. Genuine love for our children will grow out of our awareness that we are genuinely loved by God. It’s not always easy, but unconditional love is necessary. We also need to teach our children about God’s love. God’s love is solid and secure. He adopted us into His family, and He knows our needs and will provide them. Your teens need to know and accept these truths.

3. Be consistent with discipline. Our goal is that our children will ultimately become self-disciplined and self-controlled. If discipline does not eventually become internal, no amount of outside pressure to conform will make a teenager a spiritually healthy person.

4. Pray continually for and about our children. God is more concerned for them than we possibly can be, so He welcomes our conversations with Him about them. With every prayer and request, pray at all times in the Spirit, and stay alert in this, with all perseverance and intercession for all the saints (Eph. 6:18).

5. Worship together as a family. Participating in regular worship, both corporately and personally, will move us all toward spiritual health. Again, I cannot hope that my child will grow to be a faithful worshiper of the Lord if I refuse to do so myself. Let worship become a lifestyle for you, and your teens will likely catch it from you. Also, remember that personal and family worship are important as well.

6. Be active participants in the work of the church. Remember to balance your time with your family and in your church activities; but, again, if you want your youth to participate in church activities, you must do the same. Dropping them off at youth or children's activities will not teach them to be faithful church members.

7. Participate in ministries that are designed for you as a parent. Not every church does this, but when a seminar or class is offered to help parents be better at their jobs, be sure to go. It will communicate volumes to your teen when they see that you are trying to improve in your parenting skills. 

In addition to these great thoughts, you might want to resource my article, Building a Family.

Pastor Trey Rhodes


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